“I love God”

Every night, after we read multiple books before bed, we lay Parker down and he, in hopes of prolonging bedtime, asks to hear a “story”. These 2 minute stories are always made up on the spot, usually about monster trucks racing, tractors on a farm, boats in the ocean… or something like that. However last night he laid in our bed before going to his room and I told a “Jesus story” and he listened intently as it went something like this:

“Did you know that God created everything? He created the whole world in 7 days. He made the moon, sun and stars, the plants, animals in the ocean, sky and land, and the first man and woman, Adam and Eve. He loved to spend time with Adam and Eve and their only rule was to not eat from a certain tree, but Adam and Eve were naughty and they ate from the tree and God had to send them away from the garden and separate himself from them. They were very sad and God was sad too. When we are naughty it’s called sin. Parker sins. Mommy sins. Daddy sins. Everyone sins. This makes God very sad (Parker is really into distinguishing emotions these days. Often telling me “Mama’s happy!” when he eats his dinner or “Mama’s sad” after he disobeys or throws a tantrum). However God didn’t want us to be separated from him so he sent his son Jesus to the world. Jesus was the only person who NEVER sinned. He always listened and obeyed his mommy and daddy and he never did anything wrong. He saved us from our sins by dying on a cross, so that now we can be with God forever!”

At this point, Parker who was quietly listening the entire time, spoke up in his sing-songy, sweet little voice and said, “I love God, mama!” and my heart swelled as I held him. “That makes mama so happy”, I told him.  That totally unprompted, innocent moment will be ingrained in my memory forever.

I can only pray that he continues to love God more and more each passing year. I feel so honored to be his mom and that I get to experience moments like that… makes all the hard days worth it!

 

 

Tool Time… Halloween 2016

This year our costume idea had to work for a family of four and appease a picky two-year old dresser. I figured that Parker loves construction and Bob the Builder so he wouldn’t mind wearing a tool belt and dawning the outfit of Tim the Tool Man Taylor from our beloved childhood show, Home Improvement. We might as well take advantage of dressing up like we want to while the kids are young enough to be props haha.

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Parker (Tim the Tool Man), Levi (Al), Me (Heidi) and Kevin (Wilson)

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Look at this cool little fence Kevin whipped up the morning of!

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One of our favorite traditions is hosting a Halloween party because we get so many trick-or-treaters. Bon fire in the front yard, handing out hot apple cider and candy, yummy food, and movies!

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Make your own costume by hitting up the thrift store and Amazon! Some of our finds:

Wilson’s Bucket Hat

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Little Tim’s Tool Belt

Little Al’s Boots

Home Office – Part 1

As we anticipated the arrival of baby 2 and the work-from-home opportunity given to me we had to get creative with space we have at home. We have a three bedroom house which currently uses one bedroom as an office (aka a catch-all for things that don’t have a place). We knew that we would need a quiet place to escape and get work done once two kids were running around and we also wanted the boys to have separate bedrooms for the sake of full night sleeps, so we decided to build an office in our garage. This decision was hard to make because it replaced the idea of creating a studio apartment back there that we could possibly rent… it also ate up a bunch of work space for Kevin!

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We still wanted to be able to park in the garage, and keep a space on the side for Kevin’s work bench and tools so we didn’t end up with much room… only 48 sq. ft! Adding a window is a MUST!

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This garage project includes: fixing up the existing bathroom, creating an office (framing, electrical, drywall, built-in cabinets and desk, flooring) and reorganizing the tool/storage area.

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This stud (pun intended ;)) put up the framing in just one, extremely hot, afternoon!

Cutting a hole for the window!

Cutting a hole for the window!

There she is!

There she is!

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Weekend 2: Insulation √, drywall √, electrical ran √, can lights installed √

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AC unit installed!

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Drywall Complete. Kevin painting the interior.

The beginning of the custom cabinet.

The beginning of the custom cabinet.

Josh approves!

Josh approves!

Getting fitted into the space. Next up trim work, doors (for the bottom half which will cover the filing cabinets), and paint!

Cabinet getting fitted into the space. Next up… trim work, doors (for the bottom half which will cover the filing cabinets), and paint!

Cutting down the butcher block that will be used for the desktop.

Cutting down the butcher block that will be used for the desktop.

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Desktop installed and trim work around the window finished!

Desktop installed and trim work around the window finished!

We use to take pride in the speed of completing projects… well those days have changed. Free time is a thing of the past and late night work sessions have been replaced with late night feedings. So stay tuned to see the grand reveal…

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Welcome Levi Rietze

What a whirlwind it has been the past 2 weeks. Let’s give it up for all the moms and dads rocking multiple kids. It is a lot of work!

These past few weeks with newborn Levi have been more challenging than I expected. With newborn Parker we were in a cloud of sleepless bliss. Even though we were tired, we “slept when the baby slept” and found ourselves just sitting and staring at him multiple times a day. This time around with newborn Levi (and two year old Parker) there is no sleeping, period. Someone is always awake and needing attention. This state of pure exhaustion really does something to your brain! The combination of parenting a toddler, not sleeping, feeling mom-guilt for not spending enough time with Parker/Kevin/Levi, balancing the work-from-home life, and trying to “soak it all in” can really bring on a bout of anxiety.

Did anyone else feel this awkward tension between feeling so happy to have a second baby yet sad that you didn’t have just one anymore? Almost like this wave of nostalgia hits you and you crave all the moments you had just a few weeks/months prior when life was easy (hindsight is 20/20 haha) and all your energy was devoted to just one. All of the veteran moms I know have assured me that this feeling fades as your love for your second child continues to grow and I know deep-down that this is just a phase, but it is a strange feeling nonetheless and a contributing factor to the overall exhaustion.

God sure knew what he was doing when he designed motherhood. He must have known that us moms would struggle with the feelings of exhaustion, guilt, and anxiety, so he built in multiple times of rest a day (usually every 2 to 3 hours) with a loud, pressing reminder to sit down and be still… and feed your baby.  During these “resting” times, I have found that reading my Bible and going through different devotional plans have fed my soul and given me the peace and energy to get through my day. Some of the verses that I have highlighted this week are:

My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever – Psalm 73:26

And whatever you do, whether in word of deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him. – Colossians 3:17

Do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own. – Matthew 6:34

Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established. – Proverbs 16:3

I am so grateful for my two healthy children and our growing family. I hope to never take for granted what many long and pray for. Thank you Jesus for entrusting to me these beautiful babies to raise. Give me the patience and energy to teach them your ways and may my actions always point them to you.

Welcome to the family Levi! We love you!

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Baby #2

Whenever we reach a major life milestone we tend to want to photograph it. So having only a few weeks left of pregnancy with #2, we contacted our friend and photographer, Valentina Glidden, to meet us at Easley Canyon in Pasadena for a quick shoot. We only had a short window of time to work with after getting home from work, with good sunlight, a toddler (and her baby), with the park closing at 7 so we hopped on the freeway and rushed over. After a series of unfortunate events (a major brush fire that was heavily showering us with ash, having to return for missing camera parts, and a wild toddler) she somehow managed to capture these “quiet” moments of motherhood. It was a crazy afternoon, but I have a feeling our life is only going to get crazier in these next few weeks…

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The Big Reveal

After only four weeks of construction, our backyard has been completed. Kevin has spent many long nights working away to get the patio finished. My dad and his guys have been spent almost every day digging, irrigating, and planting. We are so grateful for the help we have received.

To say we cut it close is an understatement. The finishing touches were completed at 2am the day of Parker’s first birthday. Bishop’s Painting painted and stained the patio cover on Friday and ended around 6pm. Then Kevin hung the ceiling fan and pendant lights. Then we cleaned and began setting tables out for the big party. Phew! We did it!

Plants being installed!

Plants being installed!

Vegetable Garden with tomatoes, basil, chives, peppers, strawberries, cilantro, limes, avocado...  this paint job was fixed after the ceiling was stained.

Vegetable Garden with tomatoes, basil, chives, peppers, strawberries, cilantro, limes, avocado… this paint job was fixed after the ceiling was stained.

Raw wood ship lap ceiling, prior to stain.

Raw wood ship lap ceiling, prior to stain (EAST SIDE).

Raw wood ship lap ceiling, prior to stain (WEST SIDE).

Raw wood ship lap ceiling, prior to stain (WEST SIDE).

Oh no! Something we encountered when spraying the stain was this very splotchy, uneven finish. It took 3 coats to even it out and make it presentable. But believe me... I was worried.

Oh no! Something we encountered when spraying the stain was this very splotchy, uneven finish. It took 3 coats to even it out and make it presentable. But believe me… I was worried.

Taken the next day during with the sun out... You can see how the stain evened out.

Much to my relief, the stain soaked in and evened out. This photo was taken the next day with natural light.

 

What a transformation!

What a transformation! (LOOKING FROM THE GARAGE)

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LOOKING FROM NORTHWEST CORNER

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LOOKING FROM SOUTHEAST CORNER

Welcome to Parker's First Birthday party! (/backyard reveal party)

Welcome to Parker’s First Birthday party (/backyard reveal party)!

Over 50 people attended this 1st birthday bash! The yard functioned perfectly and proved to be the perfect place to entertain.

Over 50 people attended this 1st birthday bash! The yard functioned perfectly and proved to be a wonderful place to entertain.

The kids loved the new sod!

The kids loved the new sod!

Thanks to Kayla for her help party planning!

Thanks to Kayla for her help party planning!

 

Hurray! I have a brand new backyard to play in!

Hurray! I have a brand new backyard to play in!

Painting the Awnings

After much debate about what color to paint the awnings I fell back on my trusty gray. I wanted it darker than my walls to contrast nicely with the white cabinetry yet light enough to still see some of the wood grain. That is when I stumbled across milk paint. The perfect solution to my problem. With milk paint all you have to do is add water and dilute it to the right color you like. It acts more like a stain. To read more about it CLICK HERE.

Just add water!

Just add water!

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Still drying… but I love how the color is soaking in differently in different places.

Up close of the milk paint in action.

Up close of the milk paint in action.

Decided later on to add a second coat.

Decided later on to add a second coat.

 

Parker Bracelet

July 11, 2014 was the day our lives changed for the better. Parker was born! It’s amazing how such a small someone can bring so much joy to a family. He has brought our family closer together in many ways.

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I pinned this picture on Pinterest (HERE) knowing that someday I wanted to order it as a way to commemorate a special someone. Parker was that perfect someone. I ordered it on Etsy and it arrived within a few days. I love it!

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Parker Bracelet: Olive Yew Jewels

Gold Bangle & Merlot Gem Bracelet: Suo Boutique in Monrovia & Brea

Gold Stacking Rings: Mary John Fine Jewelry

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Baby Shower at the House

Today we had a family get together/baby shower at the house. It made my heart so happy to see each room in use and people enjoying themselves on the porch. It’s times like these that make all of the late nights and hard work worth it. So glad we get to share this space with others!

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Telling stories on the porch.

Telling stories on the porch.

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Need to get some art on the walls… Any suggestions?

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Still trying to figure out furniture layout in this room…

Cousin Daisy :)

Cousin Daisy 🙂

Parker’s Room

For some reason Parker’s room has been the hardest room in the house to start. I think it’s because I have so many ideas and such high expectations that it’s almost like I don’t know where to begin… so it just sits there. This week we finally began chipping away at some of the projects. Check them out below:

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Attempt #1 – wanted to add an accent color above the plate rail. This ended up being too baby blue. Up next… navy!

Bought this crib for $75 at a garage sale! Score! Just need to sand and paint it.

Bought this crib for $75 at a garage sale! Score! Just need to sand and paint it.

Found this changing table/dresser on craigslist! It was a light birch colored wood when we bought it. Kevin painted it black to match the other furniture in the room.

Found this changing table/dresser on craigslist! It was a light birch colored wood when we bought it. Kevin painted it black to match the other furniture in the room.

Newly painted changing table/dresser. You can also catch a glimpse of the new navy accent above the plate rail.

Newly painted changing table/dresser. You can also catch a glimpse of the new navy accent above the plate rail.

Thanks Kelly for the Parker vinyl! Purchased on etsy!

Thanks Kelly for the Parker vinyl! Purchased on etsy!

Parker vinyl up on the wall (and the newly painted crib)!

Parker vinyl up on the wall (and the newly painted crib)!

New book shelves built by Kevin.

New book shelves built by Kevin.

Happy Thanksgiving!

We have so much to be thankful for, especially this year! Thank you Jesus for blessing us with this beautiful house. What a fun and rewarding experience this has been for Kevin and I. The learning process of designing, building, correcting, and re-building has been one we will cherish forever! Thank you for the numerous friends and family members who spend endless hours at our house… what a tangible way to show their love and support. Thank you for this precious baby who gets to enter this world surrounded by those who love him/her and into a house created to protect him/her.

We couldn’t be happier.

I’m Pregnant!

Well in the midst of this crazy home renovation, I found out I’m pregnant! We are so excited. It’s a good thing we found out before we finished the extra bedroom. Looks like we will need to begin creating a nursery. 🙂 Guess this means I won’t have to do as much painting 😉 Phew!

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